Happy New Year, friend!
Each year, rather than making resolutions, I like to find a word to focus on for the year and then add some goals that I want to start or continue.
My word this year is Abundance.
I find myself operating out of a scarcity mentality in so many areas of my life and I really want to shift my thinking in that area.
There’s more than enough of God’s sweet blessings to go around. I want to rejoice in the victories I see in other people’s lives with total abandon because I know that a rising tide lifts everyone up!
This means that ANY form of comparison has to go. In my line of work it is so very easy to get caught up in comparing yourself to others but this always leads to toxic thinking. So no more!
I also want to believe and claim abundance over our marriage, our health, our finances, our girls, our home, our present, and our future. Dreaming BIG dreams over here and I’m not going to shy away from writing them down and giving them over to Jesus so I can watch Him blow us away!
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Even though I’m not big into resolutions, I do love treating the first of the year as a benchmark of sorts to help me stop, take a breath, and just reflect. Here are a few areas of reflection… hehe. 🙂
I’m still going to continue my normal workout routine but I want to clean up my eating, especially after this Christmas eating extravaganza. #worthit
The key to clean eating is planning out my meals in advance and not keeping sugar in my house. Sounds simple enough, right? Yeah, you haven’t seen the chocolate situation that unloaded itself out of my Christmas stocking into my pantry. Jesus, take the wheel.
I’ll have a blog post coming up on meal planning as well as the workout routine that works with my crazy mom life schedule.
I think my biggest shift this year is going to be putting forth an effort to plan ahead more diligently. We had so many changes happen this past year that we just kind of rolled with. Most of the year I was just winging it. All of it. I find I approach daily tasks with a lot more joy if I have a plan to implement and if I have the time in advance to make sure I can get things done the way I want to.
I want to play more with my girls. They are both at such a fun age! But they have also just recently gotten to the point where they will play happily together for long stretches of time so it’s tempting to always let them do their thing while I get stuff done. But seeing how their little faces light up when I join them is worth it every single time. I’d rather have dirty floors and happy kids. Actually, I’d rather have happy kids and a housekeeper that cleans my dirty floors! Let’s be real.
Matt and I have always been pretty consistent about going on dates, but this year I want to be more intentional about the time we have at home. Less TV and phones, more talking and laughing. Easy peasy. I hope. Ha!
Finally, I always like to evaluate my relationship with Jesus and make sure I’m continuing to walk with Him on the regular. For me, this looks like a consistent devotional that I can do every morning. Also just spending time in the Word AND writing down the things I’m grateful for, worried about, or just what’s taking up room in my thoughts. In Psalms it says to “cast your cares on the Lord because He cares for you.” I find myself sinking into anxiety only when I’m keeping my thoughts to myself instead of trading my heavy burden for the light one He offers.
Y’all I can honestly say that I’ve never been more excited for a fresh and new season! I would love to hear from you about what you’re taking time to reflect on and adjust in this New Year.
As always, thank you so much for reading! You are loved!
Mary powers says
I love this post! Reading everyone’s goals for the new year has been so inspiring to me and I could read them all day! I want to play more with my girls, too. It’s so easy to let them do their thing, like you said, but I want to savor this time they are little and not spend it scrolling through Insta. How do you blog, be active on Insta AND maintain a healthy home life?! Oh and work too! Ugh, I gotta figure it out or I’m gonna lose my mind. You always inspire me, girl. Your genuine love for Jesus and your family speaks volumes to me!
– Mary